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Claytor Rollins iCare Library

Loss is hard, and we’re here to help with the Claytor Rollins iCare Library, open 24/7. Designed to nourish your emotional, physical and spiritual needs after loss, visit as often as you need for articles, videos, and more from real people who understand loss.

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SUPPORT GROUP

Join us! The free iCare virtual support group is held the second Tuesday of every month at 4 pm eastern. Held via Zoom, it’s free and everyone is welcome to join with a simple click of the button.

BENEFITS:
• Learn coping tools
• Surround yourself with others who speak your loss language
• Reduce distress
• Safe place to express feelings
• Gain helpful information
• Explore hope

WHEN:
2nd Tuesday of the month

TIME:
4 pm eastern


iCARE BOOKLETS

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Designed to be read at 1, 3, 6 and 11 months during the first year of grief, the iCare series is helpful any time and can be re-read when needed. Begin by clicking any book you would like to read.

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HELPFUL ARTICLES

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Click on any link below to open and read that article or handout.

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Helpful articles and resources authored by top grief educators including national expert Dr. Bob Baugher, Lynda Cheldelin Fell, Linda Findlay, Herb Knoll, and Dave Roberts, L.M.S.W. Click on any link or graphic below to open and read that article.

Dr. Bob Baugher
Lynda Cheldelin Fell
Linda Findlay
Dave Roberts, L.M.S.W.

SUBJECTS

Grief Emotions

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General Loss

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Therapeutic modalities

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Spousal Loss

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Child loss

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Sibling loss

Grieving men

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Parent loss

Coping with the holidays

Sleep & dreams

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Resilience Rx
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VIDEOS

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A collection of videos featuring a variety of notable experts, interviews and presentations about love, loss and finding our way forward. Watch any video in your spare time, or listen in the car to hear how others have managed life after loss.

Click HERE to go to our YouTube channel featuring hope, healing and life after loss.

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GENERAL LOSS
Martin Luther King’s daughter, Dr. Bernice King, opens up to Lynda Cheldelin Fell at the National Grief & Hope Convention 2015.

GENERAL LOSS
Dr. Gloria and Dr. Heidi Horsley, international psychology experts on grief and loss, share how to find hope again.

GRIEF & FAITH
Pastor Todd Burpo of Heaven is for Real shares his story in a keynote at the National Grief & Hope Convention 2015.


GENERAL LOSS
World resiliency expert, author and CNN commentator Dr. Ken Druck leads In the Round at the National Grief & Hope Convention 2015.

WIDOW GRIEF
Soaring Spirits International and Camp Widow founder Michele Neff Hernandez shares her story of finding hope after losing her husband in 2005.

WIDOW GRIEF
Dianne West, national volunteer coordinator of Soaring Spirits International, shares her story of being scammed by a romantic interest—and how widows can protect themselves from cons.


MULTIPLE LOSSES
Benjamin Scott Allen lost his entire family due to a blood transfusion tainted with HIV. He shares his story in a keynote speech at the National Grief & Hope Convention 2015.

GENERAL LOSS
Chelsea Hanson offers a rich treasure of ideas for how to remember loved ones.

CHILD LOSS
Melanie Kors shares her journey in the aftermath of losing her youngest son to a freak accident in his bedroom. Hosted by Lynda Cheldelin Fell.


SIBLING LOSS
Nicole Brown Simpson’s sister shares her story of a downward spiral and subsequent healing in the aftermath of her sister’s murder.

OVERDOSE LOSS
Shannie Jenkins talks about her 31-year-old son’s 10-year journey through addiction that ended his life when he died from a heroin overdose in 2017.

GRIEF & FAITH
Sonja Burpo of Heaven is For Real shares her story of losing a pregnancy at the National Grief & Hope Convention 2015.

PARENT LOSS
When Shelby Forsythia was in college, life was a living hell. Her father underwent 2 brain surgeries, her mother suddenly died, and Shelby’s mind battled her body as she fought binge eating disorder along with what felt like a total loss of home, security and stability.

CHILD LOSS
When Alan Pedersen’s 18-year-old daughter died in a car accident nearly 17 years ago, Alan wasn’t sure he could survive. Today he spreads love from coast to coast in his Angels Across the USA van.

SIBLING LOSS
An inside look at traumatic sibling loss with guest expert Dr. Heidi Horsley, professor of Traumatic Loss During Childhood at Columbia University.

WIDOW GRIEF
Zenspirations founder Joanne Fink found her voice after losing her husband. Watch her inspiring story.

GRIEF STAGES
A discussion about losing a child to a neurodegenerative disorder and the 5 stages of grief with Dianne Gray from the Elisabeth Kubler-Ross Foundation.

CHILD LOSS
Sybrina Fulton has a heartfelt conversation with Lynda Cheldelin Fell about her son, Trayvon Martin’s death.

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COLORING

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Colors are all around us, and they aren’t meaningless. They play a role in how we feel, and can influence our emotions and how we react. Studies show that coloring is therapeutic for all ages. Further, the repetitive hand movements induce a meditative state and help calm the mind during stress, giving our brain a respite from the emotional pain.

Print any illustration below and use gel pens, crayons, colored pencils, or felt tipped pens to color each picture using whatever colors match your emotions in that moment. Print and repeat anytime you need express your emotions.

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PREPLANNING

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The most important thing you can do for your family.

Completing a Planning Guide can help support your loved ones at a time when they need it most. Knowing and following your wishes can alleviate the decision-making stress, and allow your survivors to focus on their emotional needs and on other family matters that may arise during difficult times.

Use the booklet below or click the Claytor Rollins Preplanning button to complete our preplanning form.

IGI PrePlanning Guide

Click HERE to download, fill and print.


Have the Talk of a Lifetime, a program created by The Funeral and Memorial Information Council, was designed to help families have meaningful conversations about the things that matter most in their lives. These discussions can give important insights to the people they left behind — insights that can be used to honor and remember the lives of their loved ones.


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