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Research shows that penning your deepest emotions helps to reduce stress and improve one’s mood. Further, journaling is an opportunity to externalize one’s emotions, struggles, frustrations and triumphs. It’s especially useful for those who push their emotions away. By expressing them in a safe, contained space, difficult emotions become less overwhelming and easier to manage. Further, the repetitive hand motion required to write induces a meditate state, calming our mind and emotions.
TIPS
- Write whatever comes to mind without censoring yourself.
- Keep it honest.
- Don’t worry about editing, grammar, vocabulary or punctuation. Just put pen to paper to externalize your thoughts, emotions, experiences, or anything you want to vent about.
- Journal for at least 5 minutes at a time. Set a timer if needed.
- A journal is for your eyes only. If you keep it confidential, you’re more likely to be brutally honest. Keep it private unless you wish to share it with someone you trust.
- Consider keeping your journal for the long haul. Revisiting it can help you continue to process your grief, and often becomes an opportunity to recognize how far you’ve come.
HELPFUL HINTS
If you get stuck and the words just won’t come, use the prompts on this page or the prompts below to begin, and then let your heart guide the pen from there.
- This is what happened today . . . .
- I’m experiencing these feelings about it . . . .
- I’m thinking these thoughts . . . .
- I’m struggling with this emotion the most right now . . . .
- I’m most angry at . . . .
- I’m most fearful of . . . .
- I wish others knew this about my journey . . . .
- I’m grateful for . .
Below are journal prompts to print and share with your families. Select any link below to open and print as a PDF. If you have any questions or get an 404 error when you click on a document, please email learn@internationalgriefinstitute.com.
JOURNALING PROMPTS
- J01 Spiritual journaling
- J02 My loss
- J03 The memorial
- J04 The aftermath
- J05 The belongings
- J06 The transition
- J07 Birthdays & angelversaries
- J08 The holidays
- J09 Our family
- J10 My friends
- J11 The darkness
- J12 My faith
- J13 My health
- J14 The quiet
- J15 My fears
- J16 My comfort
- J17 My silver lining
- J18 My hope
- J19 My journey
- AJ20 letter to my loved one
- A29 A letter to God